My entire life I’ve been called a “direct communicator,” and I've vacillated between finding it a compliment or subtle critique but never really understood the implication of it.
Are there people who prefer indirect communication?
Should I equivocate more?
Are men called direct communicators, or is this a classification saved for women because it's unexpected of us?
GoodTherapy defines direct communication as: "saying what you think and feel. Marked by active listening and effective feedback. There is no pretense of hidden messages." Um, yes, please.
My vision is to create a powerful network of courageous women who confidently express their opinions and engage in stimulating, thought-provoking discourse. They don't allow concerns about others' perceptions to hinder them when they know their intentions are genuine. Instead, they trust each other to foster an environment that promotes open and honest discussion, empowering each other to communicate effectively and authentically. That network becomes even stronger when it includes men who see professionals instead of gender in any given conference room.
The irony of this entire message is that I hesitated to share it, fearing how it might be perceived. However, I turned to the very network I mentioned, seeking guidance and reassurance. I was reminded that authenticity always triumphs, and that the best way to promote change is to be genuine and true to oneself.
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